Some people on here offend too easily. Get over yourself.

Anonymous wrote:

We need a pearl clutcher forum

What's that?

Anonymous wrote:I am in the same boat but my husband would consider it cheating. So I know that if I do he could be so upset that he may not get over it - this is what stops me.

Yea, if my husband got with another man (even just something surface level) I would quickly end things. Is there a double standard though? I feel like there might be...

We need a pearl clutcher forum

I don't see why it would need to be in the explicit forum when all you are doing is speaking out loud about imagining something taking place.

Anonymous wrote:
No tips on how to go about this. But it is funny because oftentimes it is the husband who has a fantasy that his wife would have a lesbian romp but the wife would never go for it. Now if you could just convince your DH.

I wondered if he'd be interested in that, but I'd be too afraid to ask. The truth is... I kind of wanted this experience by myself as opposed to with him there.

I dont see why this goes in explicit. The implication that nonhetero sex is freaky is really offensive.

Sorry - how do I move it to the other forum? Didn't realize...

No tips on how to go about this. But it is funny because oftentimes it is the husband who has a fantasy that his wife would have a lesbian romp but the wife would never go for it. Now if you could just convince your DH.

Ask him to join in or watch. Problem solved.

Good Lord. Move it to the freak forum !

Oh, I didn't use any explicit language though...

I am in the same boat but my husband would consider it cheating. So I know that if I do he could be so upset that he may not get over it - this is what stops me.

Put it in the explicit forum.

Here's a question for the guys: would you be just as hurt if your wife had an affair (one-time, sexual) with a woman as if it were with a man? I'm not planning on cheating on my husband, but I've always been attracted to some women. I never had the chance to experiment before, even though I wanted to. Why? Because I always had a boyfriend and didn't really have an opportunity to get with a woman I actually liked. It's also hard to know if they would be interested. I'm cute, dare I say pretty, and I think if a woman saw me she wouldn't think I was into girls. Now I'm married. Not sure what to do because the craving is there. I don't want a long-term relationship with a woman, just want to see what it's like, but don't want to hurt my husband either. What to do?