I've tried over-the-counter stuff and natural things. I use sunscreen and exfoliate, etc. but I am starting to look *really* old. I'm 37 with fair skin so wrinkles and dark spots from a previous pregnancy are really noticeable. I would really like to use retin-a but I know that's out. I'd also love to get some light fillers but I'm afraid to do anything that would be unsafe. I'm realizing that if i do get pregnant, by the time I am done breast-feeding etc. it will probably be another two years and by then I will look even worse. I know the most important thing is a healthy baby, so that's my focus but also just wondering if anyone has any recommendations for products that actually work that could help me feel little better about myself in the meantime. TIA!