Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:42     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
OP, did this just happen today? Valentine's Day? Is he completely deranged? Heartless?

Cheating is never okay. But he just doesn't seem to care at all. Kick this guy out of your life.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:40     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow. So what, pray tell, is his explanation?


That I imagined that there was another person there.


Crazy. Don't let him gaslight you.

You don't need this lying coward in your life.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:40     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Anonymous wrote:Wow. So what, pray tell, is his explanation?


That I imagined that there was another person there.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:37     Subject: Re:I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Anonymous wrote:Man here. Your husband is denying the affair because it changes the argument to one that is more pleasant to lose.

He knows he's screwed. He would rather lose a fight about why he's doing some weird, stupid thing (i.e., denying it despite being caught red handed) than lose one about why he was cheating. Don't belabor the issue; anything you say to him should take for granted the fact that he was caught red handed. He'll drop it.


OP: that at least makes sense. I can't get my head around it.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:24     Subject: Re:I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.

Here it is
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:21     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Yep just like that movie ...what was it...the guide for a married man....deny deny deny
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:21     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
I'm sorry, OP. Please take care of yourself.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:19     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
My wife cheated and I read emails that described the sex and she still denied it. It isn't only men.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:18     Subject: Re:I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Obviously, he's sick in some way. To be caught and still think you can talk your way out of it indicates some sort of psychological problem. You're better off walking away now.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:17     Subject: Re:I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Man here. Your husband is denying the affair because it changes the argument to one that is more pleasant to lose.

He knows he's screwed. He would rather lose a fight about why he's doing some weird, stupid thing (i.e., denying it despite being caught red handed) than lose one about why he was cheating. Don't belabor the issue; anything you say to him should take for granted the fact that he was caught red handed. He'll drop it.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:13     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
At their core, many men are still like children, and lie like children. They can be caught with their hand in the cookie jar, and still say they weren't trying to get a cookie.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:11     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.

How does he explain the other person in the room?
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:11     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:11     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
Wow. So what, pray tell, is his explanation?
Anonymous
Post 02/14/2015 21:08     Subject: I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.
In THE ACT, in our bedroom. I opened the door, saw, closed the door and walked out. He called me to say i didn't see what i saw. I really don't get the denial. I just don't get the break with reality. I mean, really? I don't get it.

I'm still shaking. I'm staying at a hotel for the week. I couldn't go back home. It's so surreal.

Why deny at this point?