Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 18:57     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Anonymous wrote:Don't sit on the couch for extended periods while I'm doing chores.

Send me love notes just because.

Every once in a while, do something sexy to sweep me off my feet.

Jewelry for no reason.

Tell me you cherish me.


I'd gag at most of this. Choreplay doesn't work on me either.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 18:55     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
My DH lost 80lbs and lifts weights. I was not attracted to him when he was obese. I can't get enough of him now.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 16:44     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Anonymous wrote:If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room.


I was thinking about this the other day. All of those romantic songs (especially the ones from the 70s and 80s). Kenn Rogers, all the other duets, etc. Lady in Red. If you actually spoke the lyrics to your wife or girlfriend, they would think it was the most pansy, unattractive thing ever. Somehow it's OK to hear it in a song or read it in a poem, but not hear it from your man.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 15:13     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
If the words, "I cherish you" ever came out of my mouth while speaking to my wife, she'd laugh me out of the room.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 15:08     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Virile
Kind
Generous
Smart
Knows how to fix stuff
Resourceful
Loving
Ambitious

You don't need to buy me anything!

Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 14:16     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Be funny and make people around you laugh every single day
(but unfortunately you cannot make yourself funny - you either are or aren't. And most men (and women) are not )
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 14:15     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Don't sit on the couch for extended periods while I'm doing chores.

Send me love notes just because.

Every once in a while, do something sexy to sweep me off my feet.

Jewelry for no reason.

Tell me you cherish me.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 14:03     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:34     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Surprise me with a hug, or a little shoulder rub, or a dance around the kitchen just because. Send me to sit on the couch after dinner with my feet up once in a blue moon while you clean up and put the kids to bed. Send me a text message in the middle of the day that says I love you.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:33     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Have a big dick and know how to use it and dont have a beer belly or a bald head.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:33     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Stay in shape. Love the sh*t out of me and our kiddos. Be an equal partner.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:30     Subject: Re:Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Be ambitious and want to make something of yourself. Want to provide for your children and wife.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:29     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Help out without us having to ask. Don't want us fat, don't bring fatty shit to the house. Do your share. Be okay with me going to happy hour with friends. Get your own hobbies and your own friends.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:26     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Don't be broke. Be a mind reader. Have muscles and hair.
Anonymous
Post 02/13/2015 13:10     Subject: Women: How can Men make themselves more attractive to you?
Keeping in line with the theme of the other thread. What say you, ladies?