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Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster who said her mother chose her clothes for her?

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OP, if this is the case, you might consider spending your energy asking for therapist recommendations rather than hair coloring suggestions. I actually think you may be trying to do that because you threw in the "I don't want my mother to know" teaser. Just come right out and ask for some therapy help to overcome your need to be dominated by your mother.

I actually want hair advice but I don't want it to look colored. I want it to look natural so my mom won't know if I see her in a few months.

A salon should be able to touch up and do roots if you're greying (mine does). this being said, they match your colour and at the end, brush brought all Your hair so it isn't splotchy.

You could also consider a semi- permanent or one of those brush ins like men use?

All that being said, if you're so stressed out with your mom 3000 miles away, you're going to be completely haggard and grey soon anywya so what's the point?

If I was an adult (assuming you are, and my Mother wouldn't "let" me colour my hair, I imagine I'd be dyed fuchsia. Maybe with blue highlights.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster who said her mother chose her clothes for her?

Yes

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OP, if this is the case, you might consider spending your energy asking for therapist recommendations rather than hair coloring suggestions. I actually think you may be trying to do that because you threw in the "I don't want my mother to know" teaser. Just come right out and ask for some therapy help to overcome your need to be dominated by your mother.

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Anonymous wrote:You have bigger problems than grey hair if your mother "won't let you" dye your hair. Wtf?

I can't control what my mother lets me do. That's on her. But my question is about my hair.

You can't control what your mother does but you can control
the effect that has on you. You can DECIDE not to let it bother you, whatever her reaction. You really can make a conscious decision not to let her controlling behavior effect you anymore. Then she loses her power over you and you live your own life.

I agree with PPs sentiment but not the way to go about it. You can't decide to not let it bother you; if it bothers you it will bother you. You decide to not let the fact that it bothers you affect your behavior. Then…you get the result PP is going for.

Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster who said her mother chose her clothes for her?

Wow, great memory.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have bigger problems than grey hair if your mother "won't let you" dye your hair. Wtf?

I can't control what my mother lets me do. That's on her. But my question is about my hair.

You can't control what your mother does but you can control
the effect that has on you. You can DECIDE not to let it bother you, whatever her reaction. You really can make a conscious decision not to let her controlling behavior effect you anymore. Then she loses her power over you and you live your own life.

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Anonymous wrote:OP I want to hear about what your mother would do if she found out you dyed your hair.

She would be disappointed in me. I hate disappointing her. I don't know what she would do. Stop talking to me ect. I just always try to please her and not disobey.

If your mom stops talking to you because of what you do to your own hair then so be it! My god lady, live your life. She is thousands of miles away anyway. How would she even know? Lie to her if you have to.

Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster who said her mother chose her clothes for her?

Yes

Are you the poster who said her mother chose her clothes for her?

Anonymous wrote:OP I want to hear about what your mother would do if she found out you dyed your hair.

She would be disappointed in me. I hate disappointing her. I don't know what she would do. Stop talking to me ect. I just always try to please her and not disobey.

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Anonymous wrote:You have bigger problems than grey hair if your mother "won't let you" dye your hair. Wtf?

I can't control what my mother lets me do. That's on her. But my question is about my hair.

You can control whether you give a damn. My mother's wishes for my hair wouldn't even register with me.

OP I want to hear about what your mother would do if she found out you dyed your hair.

Anonymous wrote:You have bigger problems than grey hair if your mother "won't let you" dye your hair. Wtf?

I can't control what my mother lets me do. That's on her. But my question is about my hair.

You have bigger problems than grey hair if your mother "won't let you" dye your hair. Wtf?

So I am starting to get a few gray hairs around my face. I have brown hair and I don't want to dye my whole head of hair just around my face. Is this possible? Can I get this done at a salon or will they want to dye my whole head of hair? Also how noticeable will it be , my mother will not let me dye my hair and I don't want her to know. We live 3,000 miles away so I'm hoping she won't find out.