Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 21:00     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I say if he did get offended then you dodged a major bullet!


Thanks! i acted like I would if my girlfriends were there


Yes, then thats your true personality and you need to find a guy who's okay with. I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert. It wasnt so much about the concert, more about the fact that I realized I wanted a guy who was fun and exuberant and non self concious and didnt want to be stuck with a "debbie downer" at every fun event for the rest of my life.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:59     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

Anonymous wrote:I say if he did get offended then you dodged a major bullet!


Thanks! i acted like I would if my girlfriends were there
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:56     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

I say if he did get offended then you dodged a major bullet!
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:55     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Had 2 glasses of wine. Wasn't drunk just tipsy.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:53     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.


Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?



Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance


Since that's the only question you responded to, I assume all the other answers are yes. In which case there is a good chance he was turned off by your behavior.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:50     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.


Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?



Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:38     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.


Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:38     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

Depends on the band. Who was it?
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:35     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:34     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Op here. He was excited about the band and knew their songs
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:30     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

would love to know which band it was!

Maybe he just really didn't like the band, and you clearly loved it, and the writing was on the wall from there.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:27     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

Depends on the band. And if your behavior was due to drunkenness.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:25     Subject: Re:I invited a guy to a concert

Maybe he has a big stick up his butt and cannot dance or have fun? Whew, not for you!
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:23     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

Depends. Teeny bopper esque behavior? Turn off. Fun dancing and singing...maybe turn on. Ignored me the whole concert because you were so into the band? Major turn off.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2015 20:20     Subject: I invited a guy to a concert

2nd date. A band I love came to town. My date knew the band and happily accepted my invitation. I went kind of crazy at the concert - think teenager- for this old school band. Stood up, danced , sang songs. My date thanked me but I have heard from him (this happened fri night). Did my concert behavior turn him off? Guys: what's your opinion on women acting kind of crazy at concerts?