She told them after. They aren't thrilled. We are all kind of stuck. However, now that I can't avoid his obnoxious self, no more free SoCal vacation for the family. Kid is welcome.

I'm sorry your niece is such a dumb loser. Where are her parents in all of this? Did they know about the wedding?

And throw things. My niece--yeah, that niece, with the boyfriend and the kid---just announced that she has married said boyfriend. On veterans day weekend, she was calling crying because he was passed out too much to watch her son and she was kicking him out. He's maybe been sober for 5weeks. Christ on a cracker.