But it's quite different when you've made the decision and you're in the various stages of one of the four most stressful things in life. There's a category for all of them but separation/divorce.

Because they're choosing to do so? Most of the stuff posted in Relationships isn't celebrating good marriages, it's about the tougher stuff, whether it leads to divorce or not.

There's no good place to air out the MANY concerns that runs rampant during this long process, and why should people in good relationships have to slog through all that. Please?