You sound like a strong person, OP. You don't sound like the kind of person that would have buried your head in the sand over his despicable violations had he lived. Thanks for your post.

Uh . . . OK.

I'm sorry you've had to live with that burden.

A family member was a sex offender who offended against children but was never charged or convicted.
he died very young.
My family didn't believe the truth.
he died this year.
When reading the tributes at Christmas, all I can think is "thank God he died before he molested another generation".
He had a target and when he was alive, I was torn between telling the parents who probably would not believe me and just letting things lie. Now, they morn him. But if he lived, he would have f!@#$d up their lives. He did not.

Thanks for reading.I feel better.