Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:43     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
OP:

1st: Was too old. She didn't fit in his social circle, he didn't have the same values. Changed after marriage.

2nd: Became super weird after marriage. Was immature.

3rd: Had BPD. Started on their honeymoon. Threatened to leave during honeymoon. Drained her checking account, CCs etc.

Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:36     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Bigger question, given her obvious history of choosing guys she doesn't end up staying married to, is whether you are consistent with the psychological pattern? How similar are you to the other three, and what has she learned about herself to change that pattern of attraction?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:33     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Wow, those are short marriages. Yes, a red flag...but it's worth listening to what she has to say about them.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:24     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Deal breaker
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:24     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Marriage just doesn't sound like her thing.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:23     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Not necessarily.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:23     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Anonymous wrote:does she put out? If so milk it for what it is worth.

Put out? Are you going to a sock hop later?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:19     Subject: Re:Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Save yourself and move on NOW.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:18     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Why does she say the marriages ended?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:18     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
D-R-A-M-Ahhhh
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:16     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
OP here. I forgot to add. The shortest marriage was 6 months the longest was 2 years. Has a child too.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:15     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
does she put out? If so milk it for what it is worth.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:15     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Anonymous wrote:A single 38 year old woman who has been married and divorced 3 times.



Damaged goods. Move on.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:14     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
Red flag, but maybe, maybe there's a good reason?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2014 15:11     Subject: Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
A single 38 year old woman who has been married and divorced 3 times.