There is no excuse for her behavior, just as there is no excuse for an abusive man.

Usually, posts by abused spouses include some excuse for the behavior of the abuser.

If she takes your things so you can't leave, call the cops and start divorce proceedings.

OP your DW sounds unstable emotionally right now. No matter what you did, she has rage that isn't healthy even if it is justified for some horrendous act you committed.

But you can't say that to her - she won't really receive that well coming from you.

There really is such a thing as a man in an abusive relationship - I would suggest you moving to a safe place, walking away, and also seeking counseling yourself, to understand why you are drawn to a woman like this and how to prevent it moving forward.

People can change but both have to be willing.

She crying for help? She mskes comments like she wants to "slit" OP's throat and that's all you can say? She needs help alright: professional psychotherapy.

Is she American? FS life takes toll on families. If she is not happy with this life style you should discuss it as a family and get out. She sounds very unhappy. She is crying for help.

Anonymous wrote:"Deprived her of her life." Oh, and PP I don't know. What does s woman do to make an abuser hit her?

But the wife didnt hit him, though she did threaten him and tell him that she basically fucking hated him. She sounds pretty desperate to get away from him, if you ask me.

"Deprived her of her life." Oh, and PP I don't know. What does s woman do to make an abuser hit her?

What did you do to make her hate you like that ?

^Lol. You need to check yourself, and quick. You gave away the game by admitting that you "snapped" and also by presenting such an incredibly delusional and one sided account of a domestic dispute. TO be honest, with you calling her a bitch and seeming to be completely off your rocker at the moment, I dont think you should be operating a car in your mental state. You need to chill out and fast.

OK. Never mind. I will look for help elsewhere. Nothing here.

And PP, DaW is a typo. I meant DW.

I actually should call,the police on the crazy bitch Right now. She has taken me keys and wallet so I can't leave. She is being abusive. She started this with her typical put downs And I snapped when she called my mother a cunt" and shot back is that how you're father talked to your mother? She goes on about how she is the only one who can care for "her" child be that I am "nothing" to her and then my child snd should just leave.

The provocation? My work that supports the family. She wants me to get a job that will lol keep the family "together" (I am Foreign Service), but behaves every which way to drive it apart.

What's a Daw ?

Why is it so hard for her to live with you?

Ummmm.... sorry this sounds pretty far fetched and one sided.

and threatened to accuse me of abusing my child if I don't leave "Her house" b/c she can't stand living with me anymore. I feel so alone as to hat to do.