Op here, thank you so much ! Both gorgeous , I'm going to get the color sampler thank you .

The first color could work very nicely

I think we have Benjamin Moore's Warm Blush on the living and dining walls and ceiling, with white moldings and walnut mantelpiece and furniture. It's a cream with a hint of pink - neutral but with a subtle warmth.

We have a warmer version (Candlelight) in our north-facing master bedroom. Also very nice.

You can use the color gallery on their website. I bought a fan deck of their classical colors and walked about my house holding up various colors to the walls before we painted.

I don't even know how to explain but hopefully someone can help !

I'm looking for an off white neutral paint color that has a hint of a warm rosey pinkish shade but does not look "pink."

So more of a neutral

My dining room has off white , maple, silver and gold accents with a bit of sage green