I'm so sorry this happened to you. I have two recs I was given by my gyno for intimacy issues that I would be happy to share with you if you would like. I haven't been yet but I love my gyno and trust the suggestions.

Let me just say how brave you are to seek help for that issue. My thoughts go out to you.

I would search/post in the health forum.

So after years of not dealing with a traumatic date rape, I realize it's finally time to seek some therapy. I have a great life and awesome husband who I have little to no interest in having sex with. I need to deal with this and I don't really know where to start in finding a good therapist who specializes in this. Any suggestions? I'm in NW DC but can travel.