Clean with vacuum cleaner on low setting. I use soft brush attachment. I think they are very pretty, mine are not very delicate, but the folds do collect dust. As for going with your antique-like furniture, only you can be the judge. It's a look that can go with any type of lamp, but it has to be the right shape and size. I love pleated shades, but I like a sort of eclectic aesthetic in my house.