I'm 19:41 and I didn't stereotype. A background check will miss a lot of things that make a bad partner. FWIW, my fiancé is a retired Marine.

Trained killers umm sure. On match select LE or military. But really just go party on base

Way to stereotype, assholes. OP, match lets you select law enforcement/military.

Why military guys, OP? Lots of guys are fun and decent. I don't see what the military has to do with it. The guys who tortured prisoners at Abu Ghraib were military, you know.

OP this the wrong place to ask.... military are vilified on here. Good luck i married an awesome navy pilot. Runs, gym, army navy country club, bars they are out and about. Like any guy, you have to evaluate them individually. Good luck!

Move to a small town dominated by a military base, OP. You'll be sure to run into them everywhere you go.

The two types I don't date - military guys, and guys in finance or banking. Never, ever, ever.

Anonymous wrote:The ones I know are psycho. They aren't mentally stable, they cheat, they want to settle down fast because they don't want to come home alone after being shipped. Good luck

Same experience here. They are overgrown man-children who didn't have another route after high school and weren't ready to face down the Taliban/Al-Qaeda at 18. And now they are FUBAR.

Anonymous wrote:Background check doesn't mean not mentally ill. I found that out by dating an Army enlisted guy and a Navy doctor.

+1 the only full blown NPD I ever dated was a navy public affairs officer.

Background check doesn't mean not mentally ill. I found that out by dating an Army enlisted guy and a Navy doctor.

Pick up running. Start running races that are connected to the military (Army 10 miler, various Marine Corps races)

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Anonymous wrote:The ones I know are psycho. They aren't mentally stable, they cheat, they want to settle down fast because they don't want to come home alone after being shipped. Good luck

Well, you must attract them. The ones I know are fine, upstanding men.

Yet you can't keep them.

Anonymous wrote:The ones I know are psycho. They aren't mentally stable, they cheat, they want to settle down fast because they don't want to come home alone after being shipped. Good luck

Well, you must attract them. The ones I know are fine, upstanding men.

The ones I know are psycho. They aren't mentally stable, they cheat, they want to settle down fast because they don't want to come home alone after being shipped. Good luck

Is there a way on dating sites to narrow it down to men who are in the military? I have met a few and they all seem like really fun, decent guys and they're kind of pre-screened with the background check right? I am looking for mid-thirties or older. Thanks!