Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:38     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
Just came off a 2 year dry spell. Before that it was one year.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:35     Subject: Re:How long have you gone without sex?
I am a married woman who went 2 years. It was pregnancy + cancer = long drought. My marriage was never in trouble...we were too busy focusing on fighting the fight. 6 rounds of chemo made sex very very unimportant.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:29     Subject: Re:How long have you gone without sex?
1 to 1.5 years as a single person. Not into casual sex or relationships.

In a relationship if we had little to no sex in 6 months the relationship was over.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:27     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
15 years. And counting. And know what? It's not the big deal I thought it was. Not desperate at all. I give myself an orgasm when I need it and then I'm done with it. The need to have sex with another person just never seems to equal the hassle.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:26     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

I have a friend who has never had sex with her husband. And other than that, they are happy together.


WHAT?


I know. Sounds insane. And in any other couple, I would be certain there was an affair or something to blame. But he has some sort of psychosomatic thing going on and she has just stopped pushing him on the topic.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:24     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
Anonymous wrote:I haven't quite reached you, OP. I'm getting close to 3 years due also to an imploding marriage. Pretty desperate by now.


This fascinates me. Are you the woman? Because I guarantee my husband would have been out LONG ago. Like... I would say a year at the very outside.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:23     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
I didn't have sex the entire yr I was 25. It was a self imposed break from relationships and dating.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:20     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
I haven't quite reached you, OP. I'm getting close to 3 years due also to an imploding marriage. Pretty desperate by now.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:18     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
Anonymous wrote:

I have a friend who has never had sex with her husband. And other than that, they are happy together.


WHAT?
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:15     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
what day is it?
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:07     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
I've gone months, but that was due to pregnancy.

I have a friend who has never had sex with her husband. And other than that, they are happy together.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:07     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
2 months but that was during my single days.

With DH...3 weeks if you don't count oral and 2 if you do. This was after I had DS.
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:06     Subject: Re:How long have you gone without sex?
My dh and I routinely go a month. We are really in love and have a happy marriage. And we snuggle all the time, of course. Sometimes it's just a while before I have the energy again!
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 20:04     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
And we thought the announcement of sexual orientation post was weird
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2014 19:58     Subject: How long have you gone without sex?
I'm curious, because people have such divergent ideas of what is a "typical" amount of sex.

So, what's the longest you've gone without sex? Why? How did you feel about it?

I may have everyone beat. I went for more than 4 years without sex, during an imploding marriage. I felt sad about what the lack of sex said about the health of my relationship. I missed intimacy, but I didn't really miss the act of sex. I just took care of myself in that regard!