Anonymous wrote:I don't mean she's having sex with another.
But she is definitely cheating! She's cheating me out of a sex life.
It's the worst possible combination: she is low desire, and she's gained 50 lbs.
If I don't initiate sex, she will happily go 3 months without.
But now that she's gotten fat, I am just not attracted to her sexually. So I rarely initiate.
At various times, I've talked with her about both of these problems (separate conversations to minimize the sting).
She just doesn't really see any problems here. She's fat and happy and doesn't much care about sex. She has the kids and big house, and my needs just are not that important to her.n
I don't want a divorce. She is an excellent mother and is a very pleasant person. She just has no sex appeal and no sex drive and that's how it's gonna be.
There you go: she is cheating me. And I'm eyeing up a nice MILF to keep the balance. I can justify this because she is cheating me.
Huge assumption to automatically think the MILF will go for you.
Not everyone's interested in married men.