Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:54     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm always early to everything. I've never been late to anything ever. 10 min early to me is normal.


Me too. I start panicking when people are late. Late to me is anytime past the designated time.


You should both know that arriving early to a dinner party - or any event at someone's house - is ruder than arriving 5 minutes late.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:50     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Anonymous wrote:I'm always early to everything. I've never been late to anything ever. 10 min early to me is normal.


Me too. I start panicking when people are late. Late to me is anytime past the designated time.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:49     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

I'm always early to everything. I've never been late to anything ever. 10 min early to me is normal.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:38     Subject: Re:Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

10 minutes early is very rude.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:26     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Don't! 5 min late is ideal!
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 07:21     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Totally rude!! I'd be upstairs getting dressed.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 06:59     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Anonymous wrote:Stressful for hostess. Wait in the car.


Yes! Please do this!
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 06:57     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Stressful for hostess. Wait in the car.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 06:32     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

I agree, don't do it.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 06:31     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Anonymous wrote:Don't. Lots of things get done by hosts in those last 10 minutes, and if you're early it almost certainly will not be appreciated. Why would you do this anyway?


Agree - just sit in your car or drive around the block
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 05:52     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Drive or walk around the block.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 05:40     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Don't. Lots of things get done by hosts in those last 10 minutes, and if you're early it almost certainly will not be appreciated. Why would you do this anyway?
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 05:21     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

I'd try not to, if you can help it. But it's not rude.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 05:14     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

overthinking. no big deal.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2014 05:11     Subject: Arriving 10 minutes early to a dinner party

Is it ok to arrive 10 minutes early to a dinner party or is it considered gauche/rude?