Anonymous wrote:No...nothing since we conceived. Wife's drive wasn't great before, and post-marital weight gain (and the body image issues) kind of made her even more inhibited. We were sliding into procreative only mode already...now nothing...4 weeks. I've stopped trying to initiate - I'll try touching and other affection that let her know I'm interested, but I'm not up for the rejection. I don't have ED at all, but I'm no longer able to get aroused with her because she just lays there...is not interested and has tense body language. We're in a tailspin and I fear we're gonna auger-in.
I give up...I'm destined to a life of masturbation. Nothing new since I was a teenager I guess.
This is a really tough time. Don't assume that you're doomed for the rest of your life.