Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:49     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Alarming. I would suspect abuse. What are u going to do about this?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:40     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If he were 3 and sobbing when mom leaves, it might be a different story, but at 10 something is going on. I hope you can help with your nephew!


This. Something is up. I feel for the kid. Good luck OP. Maybe you can offer to pay for a sitter?


I will, but she has to admit something is awry first. At the moment, she thinks we just don't like her boyfriend, not that anything else is wrong. It's hard, because he hits all my alarm triggers, so I DON'T like him. Unfortunately, I also remember being in this same situation as a single parent myself which is why it is alarming.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:36     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Anonymous wrote:If he were 3 and sobbing when mom leaves, it might be a different story, but at 10 something is going on. I hope you can help with your nephew!


This. Something is up. I feel for the kid. Good luck OP. Maybe you can offer to pay for a sitter?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:23     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Anonymous wrote:If he were 3 and sobbing when mom leaves, it might be a different story, but at 10 something is going on. I hope you can help with your nephew!


Well said.

I'm guessing your sister told you this? I hope she finds someone else to leave him with and it's probably a good idea for her to end things with the boyfriend. (I'm assuming he's not your nephews father). She's a single mom, so she needs to put her child(ren) first.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:18     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
That seems weird.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 14:14     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
My God. Poor kid. Get him out of there! What is wrong with your sister? Child molesters prey on kids of single moms.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:53     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
If he were 3 and sobbing when mom leaves, it might be a different story, but at 10 something is going on. I hope you can help with your nephew!
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:51     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Anonymous wrote:That makes me so sad. I hope you can help figure something out for your nephew.


Me too! Very sad. Please listen to him and tell your sister to don't leave him with the boyfriend...it may be the last time you see him.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:33     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Just a bit. They don't live close to me.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:33     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
That makes me so sad. I hope you can help figure something out for your nephew.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:32     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Very very alarming. Do you live close? Do you have a relationship with nephew independent of your sister?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:30     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
This would alarm me a great deal.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:29     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
I'm talking full on meltdown, crying so hard he can't be understood on the phone. I don't rea like the boyfriend, who has addiction and unemployment problems, so I'm afraid my view is somewhat skewed.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:27     Subject: Re:10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
no
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2014 13:21     Subject: 10 year old nephew crying when left with moms boyfriend
Am I crazy for thinking something is going on?