Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:25     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

My DH has been like this since we met at 21.

We're very happy though because our compromise is that the weekly sex is super hot and awesome. I can occupy myself the other times I want it more often.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:23     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.


My DH was like that in his early 30s. It's not that rare.


EARLY 30s????!!! Did he ever pick it back up again?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:22     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.


Nonsense. He's just tired of seeing her naked and/or fucking her.


No man tires of that, unless he's a latent homosexual.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:22     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.


My DH was like that in his early 30s. It's not that rare.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:21     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:Any other women out there who have the opposite problem of most of the men on this board? I would like to have sex more often but my husband isn't that interested. I know for a 100% fact that he isn't cheating. He just has a low sex drive. We generally have sex once a week, if that, and i almost always have to initiate. He certainly enjoys it when we do and almost always says yes when I ask, but come on. What woman doesn't want to be pursued every now and then?


Same boat. It's a total bummer. I flirt with other men to "fill my tank."
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:19     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.


Yeah he is a little overweight (like 20 lbs) and he has not been exercising much lately.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:18     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

My DH is like this. And to the person who asked about exercise, my DH is an athlete so that's not the case.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:17     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.


Nonsense. He's just tired of seeing her naked and/or fucking her.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:17     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Was he always like this?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:16     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

I simply cannot fathom such a man!

Are your husbands overweight or do they not exercise? Excess body fat causes low T. Low T send your sex drive into a nose dive.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:14     Subject: Re:DH rarely wants sex

Anonymous wrote:How old?


He is 42. I'm 35.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:07     Subject: Re:DH rarely wants sex

How old?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:04     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

The combination of sheer nylon and patent leather will do wonders- he'll be after you like a teenager.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 16:00     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

No advice here, OP. My DH is pretty much he same way, except the frequency is something like 3x/month.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2014 15:57     Subject: DH rarely wants sex

Any other women out there who have the opposite problem of most of the men on this board? I would like to have sex more often but my husband isn't that interested. I know for a 100% fact that he isn't cheating. He just has a low sex drive. We generally have sex once a week, if that, and i almost always have to initiate. He certainly enjoys it when we do and almost always says yes when I ask, but come on. What woman doesn't want to be pursued every now and then?