Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 16:05     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Married 3.5 years but together for 6. We have a 7 month old. 1-2 times a day usually. Sometimes every other but no less than 5 times a week.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:39     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

We go through phases. Sometimes, it's every day. Sometimes it's once a day during the week and twice on the weekends. Other times, it's once a week. We have not gone longer than two weeks without having sex our entire relationship, other than once when I was out of town for 3 weeks and for about 4 weeks after DD was born.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:37     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Anonymous wrote:How many times/week, and how long have you been married/together?

I'm getting worried bc I'm pregnant with #1 and currently my husband and I have sex 1x/week (sometimes 2), but I'm afraid that with kids in the future, we just won't make time for it anymore. Oddly enough, I know my husband is satisfied with once a week but it (irrationally) makes me worry about the status of our relationship that he DOESNT want to do it more.

We've been together total of 8 yrs now, and want 3 kids eventually.


About six times a month. Married 18 years, two teenagers.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:34     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Anonymous wrote:Two kids, ages 3 and 10 mo. About once a week.


Sorry forgot - together 11 yrs, married 7.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:32     Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??

Anonymous wrote:Married 7, together 9. Before kids, sex 3-4 times per week. With kids, about twice a week.


Kids are 2 and 4. Barely any sex at all for the year I nursed each kid. Like once a month.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:32     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Times per week?

I'm not bitter about it, and neither is he, but it's more like times per month.

Young toddler, been together a very long time (closer to decades than years).

We're just tired with a small child and we have been together long enough that we aren't panicking.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:31     Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??

Married 7, together 9. Before kids, sex 3-4 times per week. With kids, about twice a week.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:28     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Married 7 yrs, have 5 yr old, aim for twice, some weeks yes, some no...
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:18     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Two kids, ages 3 and 10 mo. About once a week.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:17     Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??

To the OP: you do what works for you. If you're both satisfied, don't worry and don't compare.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:17     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Anonymous wrote:How many times/week, and how long have you been married/together?

I'm getting worried bc I'm pregnant with #1 and currently my husband and I have sex 1x/week (sometimes 2), but I'm afraid that with kids in the future, we just won't make time for it anymore. Oddly enough, I know my husband is satisfied with once a week but it (irrationally) makes me worry about the status of our relationship that he DOESNT want to do it more.

We've been together total of 8 yrs now, and want 3 kids eventually.


Once a week here too. If I'm lucky maybe two. Three tops.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:16     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Together 7 years, married 5.
Before kids was probably 3-4 times per week. Since kid #1 (now 2.5), less than once a week. Now pregnant with kid #2.

We talk about it and would both like to more, but are tired and busy. We're working on it.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:13     Subject: Re:How often do you and partner have sex??

It will ebb and flow with kids and pregnancy of course- I think open communication about it is a good thing, especially in a nonaccusatory tone!

Been together 14 years, married 6. Baby under 1.

3-4 is average lately (usually 2 times during the week and 1-2 on weekends). During months 2-6 postpartum it was a DRY spell, maybe 5 times total. 1st 8 weeks after surgery I think we fooled around maybe 1 time a week. Weirdly more than the months after that.

I have no illusions that sometimes this will go away and perhaps even be more at times too- adding a 2nd will be interesting!
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:09     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

Married 6 years, have an almost 2 year old. Sex 3-4 times a week. Before kids it was 4-5, so really didn't take that much of a hit. We actually were closer to 4-5 times a week until the last month because we are in the processing of moving, I just started a new job, and DS just started daycare so we are exhausted!
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2014 15:03     Subject: How often do you and partner have sex??

How many times/week, and how long have you been married/together?

I'm getting worried bc I'm pregnant with #1 and currently my husband and I have sex 1x/week (sometimes 2), but I'm afraid that with kids in the future, we just won't make time for it anymore. Oddly enough, I know my husband is satisfied with once a week but it (irrationally) makes me worry about the status of our relationship that he DOESNT want to do it more.

We've been together total of 8 yrs now, and want 3 kids eventually.