Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 22:08     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:My DH has not initiated sex for over a year. Is it me? Is it him? I'm not perfect but not that repulsive.


Its HIM. Any normal man is going to jump at tue opportunity with a ready and willing woman. They are not picky, you don't have to be perfect by any stretch.

I don't know how you folks tolerate sexless marriages. I'd have an affair ZERO DOUBT.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 22:05     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
My DH has not initiated sex for over a year. Is it me? Is it him? I'm not perfect but not that repulsive.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:59     Subject: Re:Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
In our case a lethal combo of illness, anti-depressants, aging, fatigue and young kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:34     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.


There's gotta be an underlying hormonal issue ( assuming he's not gay). Is he heavy? That leads to low T which is a huge culprit.

Works both ways. Is she heavy?
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:29     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.


You don't know much painful for those DH with low drive wives.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:27     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.


There's gotta be an underlying hormonal issue ( assuming he's not gay). Is he heavy? That leads to low T which is a huge culprit.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:22     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Sigh. Very jealous of these wives with DH's who are always ready to go. It's like pulling teeth over here. V demoralizing.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:22     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Give him a hand job and stop just before he comes. Then he will beg you. If it is not working, find someone on the side if divorce is not an option.


Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:15     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
More in the mood? She just simply exits. Whenever she is near me, I'm in the mood. She lost 40lbs a few years ago and was just as attracted to her when she was heavy as I am now that she is fit.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 21:02     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.


Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.


+1
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 20:59     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.


Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.


Agreed. I do none of these things and my husband is on me all the time.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 20:57     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.


Something is seriously wrong with a man who can't get excited over a ready and willing wife.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 20:56     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
I'm a DW who's interested in this question too, OP. So far, I've thrown out all my granny panties and only have matching bra and panty sets; I've stopped burping around him (never farted); I've sent him raunchy pics; and I'm letting my hair get quite long.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 20:33     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Drive is fine. She just would need to be more available.
Anonymous
Post 08/28/2014 18:16     Subject: Husbands out there - what could your wife do differently to increase your drive?
Just curious what you think could change in you house that would make you more in the mood.