Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 07:57     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Four kids by three different women by his mid 30s? Wow, what a disaster.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 06:30     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Anonymous wrote:I am not a judgmental person by nature so it would all depend on his age as well as the situation(s).



Mid 30s salary under 200.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 06:29     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Anonymous wrote:Does he play in the nfl/nba?


No. Just your average computer guy
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:30     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Umm, no. Just no.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:27     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

I am not a judgmental person by nature so it would all depend on his age as well as the situation(s).

Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:23     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Hell to the naw
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:21     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Does he play in the nfl/nba?
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:15     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Anonymous wrote:No...My cousin is getting divorced right now from a guy. It was the 4th marriage for each. They are in their very early 50's.

They seem like nice, normal people on the outside, but clearly, they have huge issues.

They each had an early teen marriage (and she had a teen pregnancy) so it is understandable that those early marriages fell apart. Then they each had a shorter second marriage in their twenties fall apart. Also maybe sort of understandable. (She had kids from her second marriage too; he did not). Then they each had lengthy third marriages (20 years each; her longterm husband adopted and raised her three kids; he and his 3rd wife had three kids plus he adopted and raised her two boys from her previous marriage.)...Okay, so they go into this new marriage with high hopes and expectations that this is it - that they are finally going to get it right this time AND it fell apart after less than two years. Too much baggage. Way too much. There were too many kids and stepkids and grandkids and exes etc. Plus they each clearly had deep seated problems even though to outsiders, they are happy, nice, goodlooking, professional people.
I say - move along to someone without so much baggage or you will end up in the middle of a lot of drama.


I lost count
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:12     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

No...My cousin is getting divorced right now from a guy. It was the 4th marriage for each. They are in their very early 50's.

They seem like nice, normal people on the outside, but clearly, they have huge issues.

They each had an early teen marriage (and she had a teen pregnancy) so it is understandable that those early marriages fell apart. Then they each had a shorter second marriage in their twenties fall apart. Also maybe sort of understandable. (She had kids from her second marriage too; he did not). Then they each had lengthy third marriages (20 years each; her longterm husband adopted and raised her three kids; he and his 3rd wife had three kids plus he adopted and raised her two boys from her previous marriage.)...Okay, so they go into this new marriage with high hopes and expectations that this is it - that they are finally going to get it right this time AND it fell apart after less than two years. Too much baggage. Way too much. There were too many kids and stepkids and grandkids and exes etc. Plus they each clearly had deep seated problems even though to outsiders, they are happy, nice, goodlooking, professional people.
I say - move along to someone without so much baggage or you will end up in the middle of a lot of drama.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:09     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, if only for all the crazy stories I could share with my girlfriends at lunchtime. Then I'd dump your pathetic ass.


OP here It's not me! I'm posting for a friend
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:06     Subject: Re:Would you date a guy with 4/3?

No.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:06     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Yes, if only for all the crazy stories I could share with my girlfriends at lunchtime. Then I'd dump your pathetic ass.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:04     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

no, my standards are higher.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:04     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Obviously not
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 00:03     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?

Would you dare a guy with 4 kids by 3 different women ?