OP here, thanks!

Yes, we did. I was on progesterone for 2 months after my IVF cycle so there was no way I was waiting that long! But I know it's gross. Generally I would do 1 insert in the AM, then wait to put in my PM dose until we were finished.

We did a couple times before the dose was due so it wasn't quite so muvh...I'd also er... clean myself out while in the shower if I anticipated relations. Then afterwards dh would clean himself really well just to make sure nothing transferred. I think it's just the mess is more of an inconvenience than any potential side effects.

Did you have sex while using progesterone "up there"?
I'm afraid to because I don't know what this hormone can do to a man... Lol