I did a bridal tea at the Aylesbury tea room. It was a full tea for about 15 people and worked out really well!

http://www.aylesburytearoom.com/index.html

I am ISO a place to host a small shower. I visualizing a room at a rec center or a small private room at a restaurant that will not break the bank.

I live in DC and feel that most people would think the trip into DC would be too much.

Thanks for any recommendations