I'd go to the police

Yikes! How is this even a question ?

There's something predatory about that kind of surveillance. I'd divorce, and possibly get violent.

Divorce. Unquestionably.

Wtf?! Yes, of course it's a violation.

Whoa - that's just not cool. Just because your married does not mean you get to do something like that to your spouse. I would feel completely violated and it would do major damage to my marriage.

Wow, yes, it's a problem. Of course it is. Isn't that what that spy Robert Hansen (sp?) did to his poor wife? I remember reading something along those lines. Seriously disturbed man. Facade of normalcy, but secretly did a whole host of creepy things, in addition to betraying his country.

Violation.

Weird.

I would say that's out of line in almost all cases. He definitely has some explaining to do. Hopefully, it's not on some kind of spy can site now.

Ew.

Anonymous wrote:In what context? Was it some 'sexy' risque type thing to spice things up?

Pretty much, but only for his pleasure. She was never even told they existed.

Anonymous wrote:In what context? Was it some 'sexy' risque type thing to spice things up?

No, it's never okay to videotape someone without their knowledge.

Violation pure and simple. It doesn't matter if it were a spouse.

Violation.

In what context? Was it some 'sexy' risque type thing to spice things up?

Without your knowledge. No big deal or a violation?