Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:43
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Stop seeing him.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:41
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
AND stay far away from that creep.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:40
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
You need to stop drinking, girlfriend.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:37
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
OP, if you're looking for validation that this is not something to brush off as no big deal, you've got it. Your gut knows this isn't the guy for you.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:32
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Anonymous wrote:Umm you are an idiot, he didn't have sex with you and was letting you know why.
We tried to have sex, but couldn't. I kept getting dizzy.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:31
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Agree with DTMFA. This guy doesn't respect you.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:31
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Anonymous wrote:Umm you are an idiot, he didn't have sex with you and was letting you know why.
He thinks rape jokes are funny. She was abused as a child. He doesn't have the slightest bid of empathy as to why she is upset.
Lack of empathy is a good reason to dump someone.
Dump him.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:30
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Anonymous wrote:Umm you are an idiot, he didn't have sex with you and was letting you know why.
...he thinks it's noteworthy that he's not a rapist? Um, gold star, I guess.
DTMFA.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:29
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Umm you are an idiot, he didn't have sex with you and was letting you know why.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:27
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Run, don't walk, away from him. I can't help but wonder if he has raped another girl or girls.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:23
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
He doesn't get you. Move on.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:22
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
Dtmf
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:21
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
He's not right for you. Period. Move on.
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:18
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
So what's your question?
Anonymous
07/17/2014 08:16
Subject: Guy I'm seeing made a joke about raping me and doesn't think it's a problem
I've been seeing a guy since December. We met in November, but due to the holiday season took some time to go on our first date. I recently had a birthday, so I've been celebrating a lot. One night I had too much to drink and couldn't have sex due to being too drunk. We talked about the next day and he said, I could have raped you and you wouldn't have remembered it. Then laughed. I'm so upset by this and he seems to not think it's a problem. He's also aware that I was sexually abused in college. He thinks it's a silly reason to break things off, but I'm starting to not see him as boyfriend material although we have similar beliefs on certain things and he's educated with a good career. I feel like he doesn't get me.