Anonymous wrote:If it's a small room, I'd leave the ceiling alone in terms of paint.
I love purples and aqua too. I'd consider lavender wall color with plum and grey accents, e.g.:
http://www.snippetandink.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/dark-purple-wedding-colors.jpg
For a more grown up chair, I like this one:
http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/90251659/
so funny but that is exactly the grown up chair I had in mind. Thanks for the suggestions. I like them. I do like the plum family. I'll have to work on getting the right paint shade because I don't want to end up with a cheesy purple room. I would like the purple to be interesting. My dd is 3. I just got tired of her walls (pale green) and stupid nursing chair and the changing table that never gets used anymore.