Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm not "perfectly happy" in the current house as one PP said, but it is more than sufficient. Everything I'd be looking for would just be luxuries like 3rd full bath up, vaulted family room, 2nd stair case, bigger garage. i feel like if we can afford it, its not a BAD place to put the money. DH would rather save and make minor improvements than make a housing jump. He thinks there are "hidden" costs like higher taxes and utilities/maintenance, and richer neighbors making "keeping up" more expensive.
I just feel like if we are maxing out retirement and almost done saving for college, what else should we do with the extra money?
Save more for retirement. You can't "max out retirement."