jsteele
Post 05/25/2014 20:55     Subject: Re:"Really freaked out" blog thread

Anonymous wrote:
What makes you fairly confident that he's not doing any of those things to scramble his location? I think you missed the part about how he said that he hopes he doesn't shoot people up, but isn't too hopeful.


I don't want to go into details, but the short version is that I see people doing those things every day. I generally know it when I see it.

I haven't seen the post about shooting people up.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 20:00     Subject: Re:"Really freaked out" blog thread

jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am no computer expert but if his IP address says it's coming from Croatia, it REALLY is, correct? (I know I sound paranoid but why would be be posting on DCUM)?

Look at his comment on page 8 at 17:04 where he says something to the effect that he hopes he doesn't shoot people up.

Then 17:05 and 17:06 people ask you to take him off the site.

Then at 17:10 he goes on a rant telling the OP to "teach her daughter to become the biggest slut in the world."

17:28 he says he is from Central Europe

Then at 17:45 he says he lives in the West?

Again, I am no computer expert and I REALLY hope it's not possible to scramble an IP address to make it appear as if you are coming from somewhere you aren't (he seems to have a lot of computer knowledge what with the comment he made about the IP address of one of the girls he dated and being able to trace her by it).

Just seems VERY ODD that someone from Croatia would be posting on DCUM. I hope he is not here and I hope he gets the help he needs wherever he is before he hurts someone!

Whew! Thanks for reading!


It is trivial to use a proxy server to disguise your address. It is almost as trivial to use the Tor network to disguise your address. It is less trivial, but also possible, to use a VPN to disguise your address. But, I'm fairly confident that this poster is not doing any of those things.

The OP of the thread posted a link to his blog. His stats probably showed a lot of traffic being referred by DCUM. Hence, he made his appearance here. If you have visited his blog, he probably knows your IP address.

The guy appears to be getting stressed out about the criticism he is receiving. It's also pretty late in Croatia. So, he is probably on a pretty thin edge at the moment.

What makes you fairly confident that he's not doing any of those things to scramble his location? I think you missed the part about how he said that he hopes he doesn't shoot people up, but isn't too hopeful.
jsteele
Post 05/25/2014 18:57     Subject: Re:"Really freaked out" blog thread

Anonymous wrote:I am no computer expert but if his IP address says it's coming from Croatia, it REALLY is, correct? (I know I sound paranoid but why would be be posting on DCUM)?

Look at his comment on page 8 at 17:04 where he says something to the effect that he hopes he doesn't shoot people up.

Then 17:05 and 17:06 people ask you to take him off the site.

Then at 17:10 he goes on a rant telling the OP to "teach her daughter to become the biggest slut in the world."

17:28 he says he is from Central Europe

Then at 17:45 he says he lives in the West?

Again, I am no computer expert and I REALLY hope it's not possible to scramble an IP address to make it appear as if you are coming from somewhere you aren't (he seems to have a lot of computer knowledge what with the comment he made about the IP address of one of the girls he dated and being able to trace her by it).

Just seems VERY ODD that someone from Croatia would be posting on DCUM. I hope he is not here and I hope he gets the help he needs wherever he is before he hurts someone!

Whew! Thanks for reading!


It is trivial to use a proxy server to disguise your address. It is almost as trivial to use the Tor network to disguise your address. It is less trivial, but also possible, to use a VPN to disguise your address. But, I'm fairly confident that this poster is not doing any of those things.

The OP of the thread posted a link to his blog. His stats probably showed a lot of traffic being referred by DCUM. Hence, he made his appearance here. If you have visited his blog, he probably knows your IP address.

The guy appears to be getting stressed out about the criticism he is receiving. It's also pretty late in Croatia. So, he is probably on a pretty thin edge at the moment.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 18:28     Subject: Re:"Really freaked out" blog thread

I am no computer expert but if his IP address says it's coming from Croatia, it REALLY is, correct? (I know I sound paranoid but why would be be posting on DCUM)?

Look at his comment on page 8 at 17:04 where he says something to the effect that he hopes he doesn't shoot people up.

Then 17:05 and 17:06 people ask you to take him off the site.

Then at 17:10 he goes on a rant telling the OP to "teach her daughter to become the biggest slut in the world."

17:28 he says he is from Central Europe

Then at 17:45 he says he lives in the West?

Again, I am no computer expert and I REALLY hope it's not possible to scramble an IP address to make it appear as if you are coming from somewhere you aren't (he seems to have a lot of computer knowledge what with the comment he made about the IP address of one of the girls he dated and being able to trace her by it).

Just seems VERY ODD that someone from Croatia would be posting on DCUM. I hope he is not here and I hope he gets the help he needs wherever he is before he hurts someone!

Whew! Thanks for reading!
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 17:57     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Anonymous wrote:The more the guy posts, the more obvious it is that he has severe mental issues. I do hope that he doesn't ever find a woman willing to be in a relationship with him. I fear it wouldn't end up very well for her at all.


I doubt he even talks to women IRL any more.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 17:55     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

The more the guy posts, the more obvious it is that he has severe mental issues. I do hope that he doesn't ever find a woman willing to be in a relationship with him. I fear it wouldn't end up very well for her at all.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 17:50     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

I am OP. I don't live in Croatia. I'm not male, white, a virgin, or deeply mentally ill. I can't figure this guy or his brethren out. He scares me. I want to know what my daughters will be facing as they date. The older one and I had the rapey drunk jock speech before she left for college. Never thought I'd have to say watch out for the lab partner who can't make eye contact.
jsteele
Post 05/25/2014 17:35     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Anonymous wrote:Jeff, can you please look back at that Incel thread again? This guy keeps posting things that directly imply that he's thinking about killing people. I know you don't have time to police this entire site, so wanted to draw your attention to it. This guy is dangerous, or at the very least wants to leave the impression that he's dangerous. Either way, I'd rather the authorities make that determination.


I just read the last couple of pages of the thread. Unless I missed something, he also explained why he won't act on his thoughts. He is posting from Croatia, so I wouldn't know what authorities to contact.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 17:08     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Jeff, can you please look back at that Incel thread again? This guy keeps posting things that directly imply that he's thinking about killing people. I know you don't have time to police this entire site, so wanted to draw your attention to it. This guy is dangerous, or at the very least wants to leave the impression that he's dangerous. Either way, I'd rather the authorities make that determination.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 12:40     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

OK, thanks.
jsteele
Post 05/25/2014 12:35     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Anonymous wrote:
jsteele wrote:Of course I have no way of knowing for sure, but the poster is posting from Croatia and the blog author describes himself as "European". So, I think he probably is who he claims to be.


I mean, is the OP of the thread actually the poster who is the author of the blog. In other words, did he pretend to "stumble upon" his own blog and then claim to be freaked out about it to generate discussion and hits?


Oh, I misunderstood. No, the OP of the thread is completely different -- a frequent DCUM poster who is local.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 12:33     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

(Is it possible to tell if the OP and "tib" are one and the same?)
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 12:20     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

jsteele wrote:Of course I have no way of knowing for sure, but the poster is posting from Croatia and the blog author describes himself as "European". So, I think he probably is who he claims to be.


I mean, is the OP of the thread actually the poster who is the author of the blog. In other words, did he pretend to "stumble upon" his own blog and then claim to be freaked out about it to generate discussion and hits?
jsteele
Post 05/25/2014 12:18     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Of course I have no way of knowing for sure, but the poster is posting from Croatia and the blog author describes himself as "European". So, I think he probably is who he claims to be.
Anonymous
Post 05/25/2014 12:16     Subject: "Really freaked out" blog thread

Hi, Jeff. Is the OP of this thread actually the poster "tib" (the author of the blog)?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/387178.page