Integrity. Character.

Not wanting to hurt your children.

Rent the movie "Fatal Attraction". Then think about an affair again. A divorced woman looking to cheat on a long-term boyfriend with a married guy is not exactly what I'd call "stable".

Fix your marriage or get out. This will end badly.

Anonymous wrote:She's divorced and very hot. Has 2 kids and per a conversation has "been with a guy in over a year". I'm 36, work really hard, make a good bit of money but my stay at home wife doesn't give a shit about me, my stress or what I do to give her a good life. So what's stopping me?

If you sleep with this woman, she will come on DCUM and start a thread about the affair you are having with her. She will name just enough specifics that it'll get back to your SAHM wife and f*ck up your life.

Beyond that, you probably can't hide the $33k a year for her apartment as well as an expert witness mental health expert can.

Your children shouldn't be made to suffer for your mistakes.

*your* wife

Divorce you wife first. Take the high road and if you are so unhappy, move on before you have another relationship. Deception is a shitty thing to put your kids through.

Anonymous wrote:Force your wife to get off of her ass and get a job. Makes divorce down the road easier. Maybe you can be happier before you're 40.

Good luck.

He didn't say she was neglecting the kids.
Until he does, shut the f**k up.

You could have the affair, but long term, how do you think it will pan out? A divorce will make you and your entire family's life miserable, not to mention the financial impact. And do you think life would be any better with this other woman? She could turn on you, too. Grass is not always greener on the other side.

Try to fix your marriage.

Wanting to be a good person, good model for your children and want to do the right thing?

Force your wife to get off of her ass and get a job. Makes divorce down the road easier. Maybe you can be happier before you're 40.

Good luck.

If you hate your wife, please leave instead of becoming a lying cheater who will make the children and wife suffer horribly.

Maybe you deserve the type of skank who is into married men. And yeah, I'm sure she hasn't been with one for a year! Fresh sluttisness!

Your morals.

Your children. Period.

She's divorced and very hot. Has 2 kids and per a conversation has "been with a guy in over a year". I'm 36, work really hard, make a good bit of money but my stay at home wife doesn't give a shit about me, my stress or what I do to give her a good life. So what's stopping me?