Well if my H does leave me it better be for a hotter woman. I'll be pissed if he ditches kids and me for a frump.

No he wouldn't leave me because we get along really well. I've seen his ex gf and the are all MUCH thinner than I am and I think they are prettier too. He didn't have to marry me, he chose me because we are compatible on all levels.

He's been with pretty but psycho and so no, he knows better than to go after a pretty young woman.

Some men's opinions would be helpful here

Not at all

I don't know why one would even ponder such a question.

I don't think so. Maybe he will leave me. But that won't be the main reason. It isn't the main reason he married me, either. Relationships can't really be sustained primarily on looks.

Anonymous wrote:Not to mention my husband and most guys I am friends with marry for substance (and are also attracted to their wives) but that is by no means the reason they married them. Silly conversation. What about if he would leave you for a nicer, smarter woman? Why is looks the only criteria you are concerned with?

Raging insecurity of the sort that seeks to undermine others to get company.

Not to mention my husband and most guys I am friends with marry for substance (and are also attracted to their wives) but that is by no means the reason they married them. Silly conversation. What about if he would leave you for a nicer, smarter woman? Why is looks the only criteria you are concerned with?

Not in a million years - my mate mates for life.

Op, what is your obsession with trying to make all the married women feel bad and like their husbands don't love them for the women they are....

This has to be your third thread on the subject in the last few days... Yawn.

No. I'm still pretty hot and I'm good in bed and laugh at all his jokes. He still likes me.

i like to think about this sort of thing, but then get back to reality. if you have a good one, fight to keep him. life goes fast in the 40s and 50s and you will need a rock to get you through rough times. if you have kids the whole ditch thing and the new dynamics can really change things.

so fantasize, sure, we all do, but I think most think in the end ditching isn't worth it. use other outlets to get the spark you need to keep chugging on.

my spouse is super loyal btw, more than me. neither of us would cheat, but I probably think about it more!

Doubt. I doubt your husbands would leave all of you.

We fit into the 10+ years married category and, no. My husband loves me and I love him and we love our life together. I sincerely that all your husbands would leave you.

Just a hypothetical: If he could foresee an amicable divorce where no one got hurt. Would he leave you for a hotter woman? I'm a married good looking mother of two. My husband is wonderful, he remembers all special dates and brings flowers just because. But I'm pretty realistic. We have been married for 12 years and I think I get men well. If he could foresee a happy ending for all, our children and me, I think he would ditch lol. My friends talked about this the othe day and we all agreed our hubbies would ditch. This is toward people that have been married 10+ years, not mad in love newly weds.