Praying for a gentle passing for your mom and great comfort for you.

OP, you're doing the right thing. Been there and it's brutal. But you will never regret being there, no matter how painful.

And later, after, it is a source of strength.

I'm sorry. Peace to you and your mother in the tough days ahead.

How would I, as a mother, want MY child to handle this?

This sounds like really nice advice. Do you mean, think like a mother of your dying mother?

Hope you are doing OK, OP.

Sorry for your struggles.

I'm so sorry OP. I'm not the one who offered that but I'm glad you got some comfort here. Wishing you and your mom peace.

Thank you.

This is the OP from the "my mom is dying" thread. I'm with her. This is hard, but better than not being here. She's still with us, but not for much longer. That advice has brought me a lot of comfort. Thank you.