Hi youngblackdude. I think you'd get responses with a more specific topic. People's experiences probably vary based on:
-was the sickness terminal or not, or unknown at the time?
-how old was the parent?
-how far away was the parent?
-was the other parent alive? what was their health state?
-how was the person's relationship with the parent?
-how involved were any siblings? any issues with that?
-what was the parent's mental/emotional state? how about the siblings' mental/emotional state?
-what was the care situation - doctors, caregivers, religious institution, friend support network?
-what was the person's life situation when it happened?
-what was the person's mental/emotional state otherwise?