Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Only if your WISC is substantially higher than the current scores. I don't mean to be snarky -- it's just that those scores are perfectly fine for a regular school. Yeah! you have a very capable kid. You have to remember that your child will be in a class with kids who scored 30 points higher than yours -- having seen one of my children with scores similar to yours and one who was substantially higher in the quant and NNAT tests, I do see a difference in the way that they are able to handle logical challenges and math concepts. I think the scores are valid reflections of those differences. BUT, if your child takes the WISC and does really well -- then by all means, use it! Just go into it with eyes wide open -- the score may be consistent with what you have already seen in the scores.
Do you have one in AAP and one not? Working through this now in my family.
We are thinking of putting the younger in AAP (at a different school) while the older will stay at base school. The older has adv. math (which is ironic b/c that is her worst subject). I have asked her on several occassions if she would like to go to a school with more challenges and her personality is such that she does not want it-- and at her age (which is 4th grade), I give more weight to what her ambitions are. Could she handle AAP -- probably, since she is hanging in there with Adv. Math. But, she does not relish a challenge. That's a big difference with younger child. He is more comfortable with things he doesn't know how to do right away. Younger just got the eligibility letter. We are not decided on whether to send him, but our decision has nothing to do with his older sibling staying at the base school. We are trying to figure out whatever is right for each kid individually. I do not believe older child will feel inferior by staying at the base school. I think she is fine with the level of challenge and the effort required of her there. Younger child is not asking for more challenges and would prefer to stay with what he knows (but I don't give as much weight to his opinion b/c of his age and that he doesn't really know what AAP is).
I don't think any child is "less" of a person or less likely to succeed in life if he doesn't go to AAP. So, I am not concerned about one going while the other stays. Success and happiness are marathons, not sprints.