This group focuses specifically on fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting issues: http://www.greaterwashingtontherapy.com/ITGW/Home.html

They're in Maryland, so they may not work for you location-wise, but their niche focus may make the extra drive worthwhile. Or it may be worth calling them to see if they can recommend anyone in VA.

Good luck working through your stuff.

DH and I suffered a late second trimester loss a few years ago. We have since had a child, and feel unbridled joy toward her. But we still haven't adequately addressed what happened and I think we'd be happier if we could, with the help of an awesome therapist. It would be great if we could find someone to whom we could bring dd, like an office with toys for her to play with while we talk...not sure if that exists. We're in the Arlington/Falls Church area, but DH works near Farragut West, so that's a great option too.