I resigned from a company in Maryland several years ago. When I left, I requested paperwork to rollover my 401k. They refused and said I had to wait until the next year. I did not pursue it further and left my money where it was. Recently they sent me paperwork stating that I had to rollover my money by a certain date or they would do it for me. Can they do that? Do I have any recourse if I prefer to leave my money where it is?