ANkle boots are a no if you legs aren't slim.

Depends on whether you are planning on going all the way.

Anonymous wrote:what kind of "cute top"?

Yes everyone seems to have these cute tops...

I like it. But, I'd vote for ankle boots with a heel (you look slimmer and taller in heels than flats). I am thinking a chunky heeled boot.

Not too much jewelry. Nice earrings. I have been on a bunch of these lately -- what you wear isn't really all that important. You'll either click or not.

DON'T wear anything quilted that screams soccer mom. If you have a nice one, wear a leather jacket.

what kind of "cute top"?

I wore white jeans today after seeing a woman earlier this week wearing wide leg white pants and a flowing black top with pointed black flats, and thought to myself, she's right- it's time.
I wore flats.

Anonymous wrote:If he's blind, it doesn't matter what you wear.

Ha ha! That was funny!

If he's blind, it doesn't matter what you wear.

Sounds good. Go with flats, not boots.

I am 40, recently divorced and have a blind date tomorrow night. We are meeting at a bar/restaurant. Thinking of wearing dark jeans and a cute top. Boots or flats? Any suggestions would be greatlyaappreciated.