Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 19:06     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
i don't think so, but I do enjoy fantasizing about it.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 19:03     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.


Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.


Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.


Then get a divorce, coward. Try to face life without your security blanket of a wife.


You are an idiot. Our marriage is intact, our children have parents who are together and happy. So it would be better for them to have a broken home?
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 19:01     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.


Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.


Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.


Then get a divorce, coward. Try to face life without your security blanket of a wife.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 19:00     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.


Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.


Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 18:58     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?


Great rationalization, until you unwittingly pass along an STD to your spouse.


+1! Get tested and start using condoms!
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 18:57     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.


Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 18:57     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?


Great rationalization, until you unwittingly pass along an STD to your spouse.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 18:53     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 17:02     Subject: Re:Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Not at my house. You cheat you be homeless, wifeless, most likely poverty stricken.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:42     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Anonymous wrote:It didn't work for my ex -- even when he so kindly explained to me that he was only cheating to save our marriage.


Snrk.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:35     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
It didn't work for my ex -- even when he so kindly explained to me that he was only cheating to save our marriage.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:15     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Nice try.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:09     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
How? the energizing is with someone else? Unless you are comparing it to a cheat day on a diet which allows you to stay the course--I guess? But it seems like there may be better options out there.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:08     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Because the way to put the zing in someone's life is to stab them in the back.
Anonymous
Post 03/20/2014 16:07     Subject: Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?
Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?