Yes at 16 she should have that. All about confidence

Anonymous wrote:The Candy's line at Kohls and Victoria Secrets Pink collection would both be age appropriate for her. There's nothing wrong with wanting fun, cute bras and panties at her age

Thanks, you pervert. Kids don't need more of that kind of "fun" at this age.

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Anonymous wrote:What do all of you wear? I'm kind of surprised by the poster who said she wishes she could wear what her daughter wears.

Spanx

All the time?

Anonymous wrote:What do all of you wear? I'm kind of surprised by the poster who said she wishes she could wear what her daughter wears.

Spanx

Anonymous wrote:How does she know that her friends are wearing sexy thongs? Very odd.

Seriously? I can think of several instances where I saw my friends' underwear as a teenager, and I was fairly modest.

1. Locker rooms.
2. sleep overs
3. pool parties
4. getting ready for a group date at a friend's house
5. trying on friend's clothes at her house
6. overnight school trips
7. overnight camps
etc.

What do all of you wear? I'm kind of surprised by the poster who said she wishes she could wear what her daughter wears.

The Candy's line at Kohls and Victoria Secrets Pink collection would both be age appropriate for her. There's nothing wrong with wanting fun, cute bras and panties at her age

Anonymous wrote:How does she know that her friends are wearing sexy thongs? Very odd.

No panty lines through their yoga pants -- not hard to notice.

Anonymous wrote:How does she know that her friends are wearing sexy thongs? Very odd.

You must be very naïve. They are girls. They talk about everything.

How does she know that her friends are wearing sexy thongs? Very odd.

You thought "sexy", she said "cute". That's your conflict right there.

I too wanted lacy, interesting underwear as a teen, and it had nothing to do with having a boyfriend. After years of cotton panties for little girls, it was highly desirable!

I wish I had the lingerie drawer my teen DDs have. It's sexy to us but it's the norm for them. Thank PINK etc.

I don't think you should ban them, let her buy them with her own money. Get her on birth control, she doesn't need a boyfriend to be having sex.

I wore that stuff in high school and wasn't promiscuous or anything. I think it is fine

My 16 year old DD wants to have sexy thongs and bras. I asked her why and she said, " all my friends have cute underwear." Should I let her wear a thong/lacy bras and underwear. She goes to a co-ed school, but does not have a boyfriend. Thanks Ladies.