Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 18:45     Subject: Re:My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Seek professional help to find out why you are a troll.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 18:43     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

More details are needed, OP.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 18:26     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

hahaha. How many other men?? How did you find out?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:57     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Anonymous wrote:Wtf?? Why are these men giving her stuff?


For services rendered?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:55     Subject: Re:My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Anonymous wrote:Depends on the context. If these men singled your wife out and there wasn't an overt reason behind it, then it is inappropriate and you need to have a discussion with her. I'm married and have given gifts, cards and flowers to other women including other married women in certain contexts. For example, I had an annual event that occurs on weekends in February. In the past, I have bought yellow roses and given one to each woman who has volunteered for the event. I have had times when someone has done something really nice or major for me around Valentine's day and I have given a thank you on Valentine's Day.

However, look at the circumstances and if there is something suspect about it, you should have a frank discussion with your wife about who these men are, why they singled her out and most importantly, why she accepted and did not decline the gifts.


PP--to clarify, the gift and card were not Valentine's Day themed and were clearly marked as a Thank You card.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:54     Subject: Re:My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Depends on the context. If these men singled your wife out and there wasn't an overt reason behind it, then it is inappropriate and you need to have a discussion with her. I'm married and have given gifts, cards and flowers to other women including other married women in certain contexts. For example, I had an annual event that occurs on weekends in February. In the past, I have bought yellow roses and given one to each woman who has volunteered for the event. I have had times when someone has done something really nice or major for me around Valentine's day and I have given a thank you on Valentine's Day.

However, look at the circumstances and if there is something suspect about it, you should have a frank discussion with your wife about who these men are, why they singled her out and most importantly, why she accepted and did not decline the gifts.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:21     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Anonymous wrote:Total troll post. What man gives gift + card + chocolates for VD?


No one I have ever dated or married!
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:18     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Total troll post. What man gives gift + card + chocolates for VD?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:11     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

not good. if I were you I would be livid that she did not share the chocolate
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 16:08     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Is your wife in Kindergarten?
Fairfax
Post 03/05/2014 15:48     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Troll post. DERP.
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 15:40     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Huh?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 15:39     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Wtf?? Why are these men giving her stuff?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 15:34     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

For real?? How many men?
Anonymous
Post 03/05/2014 15:29     Subject: My wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day - what to do?

Found out my wife accepted gifts, cards, chocolates from other men on Valentines day and kept it a secret.