Anonymous wrote:I have a son approaching college. He does well in all subjects, but has to work harder for the math and science grades and always scores much better in verbal/reading/writing on standardized tests. He enjoys history and government the most. What should a kid like this be thinking about for college? Should son just go for what he loves, like DH and I did years ago, and expect it will all work out? (DH and I both planned academic careers but ended up in law and business and are very happy with our choices). Get a boring business degree to be safe? DH thinks undergrad business degrees are worthless, but they are so common now. What about double majoring or doing a major/minor to keep options open? Son is also thinking about taking the pre-med prerequisites to keep that option open, but his heart is not in the sciences. And he has zero interest in becoming an engineer. Love to hear from parents with similar kids about their plans or recent post-grad experiences.
Anonymous wrote:I am a scientist, and I don't think everyone needs to major in STEM, business, or other "practical" majors to be employable. I have non-STEM major friends who make way more money than me, or who make about the same but are happy in their jobs. I went to a liberal arts school, so I have a lot of friends who majored in things like English, classics, history, etc. I also graduated not all that long ago (in my 20s), so I'm well aware of the current bleakness of the job market.
Are some of them baristas or unemployed? Sure. But some of my science major friends are also unemployed. I also have friends who are doing well who were humanities majors. They are in publishing, marketing, management consulting, doing editorial work, journalism, PR, teaching, and some went into law. A tiny few went to graduate school in political science, English, and other fields, but only if they got competitive fellowships that pay stipend and living expenses (none have entered the academic job market yet, though...we'll see how that goes). Many of them are doing things utterly unrelated to their majors. The people who did well tended to have high grades, network with alumni, and were strong writers. Writing is an important skill, and a skill that many people lack.
If he isn't passionate about science and doesn't have an aptitude for it, then don't push him into STEM or pre-med--those people don't do well enough in it to be competitive in the workplace or get into med school (or if they do, they are not necessarily happy). I agree with your DH that with a few exceptions, undergraduate business majors are a joke (better to major in something else, work for a while, and get an MBA). Get a great education, learn how to write, be proactive about networking with alumni and looking a job no later than the very beginning of his senior year, do as well as he can at the best college for him, and he has as good of a chance as anyone of finding a job.
Anonymous wrote:I am a scientist, and I don't think everyone needs to major in STEM, business, or other "practical" majors to be employable. I have non-STEM major friends who make way more money than me, or who make about the same but are happy in their jobs. I went to a liberal arts school, so I have a lot of friends who majored in things like English, classics, history, etc. I also graduated not all that long ago (in my 20s), so I'm well aware of the current bleakness of the job market.
Are some of them baristas or unemployed? Sure. But some of my science major friends are also unemployed. I also have friends who are doing well who were humanities majors. They are in publishing, marketing, management consulting, doing editorial work, journalism, PR, teaching, and some went into law. A tiny few went to graduate school in political science, English, and other fields, but only if they got competitive fellowships that pay stipend and living expenses (none have entered the academic job market yet, though...we'll see how that goes). Many of them are doing things utterly unrelated to their majors. The people who did well tended to have high grades, network with alumni, and were strong writers. Writing is an important skill, and a skill that many people lack.
If he isn't passionate about science and doesn't have an aptitude for it, then don't push him into STEM or pre-med--those people don't do well enough in it to be competitive in the workplace or get into med school (or if they do, they are not necessarily happy). I agree with your DH that with a few exceptions, undergraduate business majors are a joke (better to major in something else, work for a while, and get an MBA). Get a great education, learn how to write, be proactive about networking with alumni and looking a job no later than the very beginning of his senior year, do as well as he can at the best college for him, and he has as good of a chance as anyone of finding a job.
The love for foreign languages sounds like my to be rising high school senior who also prefers the social sciences. I have encouraged him to explore International Studies. There are excellent programs IS programs from state schools, and private. The way the world is changing. International Studies is a good choice for those interested in social sciences and humanities but certainly not dismissing the other challenging programs in LAS.Anonymous wrote:I have a college senior who is very similar. His older brother was a math and science kid and is majoring in engineering in college. My second son, like yours, prefers the humanities and social sciences. He's looking into liberal arts and will probably go on to either business school, law school, foreign affairs or public policy. He also is very good with foregn languages, so we're encouraging that.
Anonymous wrote:Boring business degree? Really? English is more exciting to your husband even though it has no applications in the real world?
Your son won't cut it in pre-med. You have to get a 4.0 and top MCAT score to get in even a state run med school.
Yes, he should pursue business and dabble in his passion as a minor or double major. He needs to be employable first and foremost or he'll be living in your basement.
--science major