Anonymous wrote:My school will not connect you with families or provide directory until this summer....translation...after the deposit and contract are due. For those doing this...are you doing this for elementary school? how involved are you really with the school community and do the kids have friendships with many kids at the school? Are their classmates coming to PG for parties and play dates? Are they left out of the circle of kids that are all in Bethesda, Chevy chase, NW DC? I care about social life and social development as much as I do academics and my kid really craves friendships right now. I disagree that there is nothing comparable closer to us.....we have another option we just got an acceptance for we are considering that would not require such a drastic amount of commuting time and we think can provide a comparable education and costs less. I just don't know if the more prestigious name and fancier facility are worth turning our lives upside down for PreK ...maybe middle school and beyond.
If you don't mind me asking- what school is this (that won't connect, that is), and yes, this is for middle school in my case at least (I'm the pp that's been in touch with the transportation service). We have strong out of school connections from playing travel sports. I will beg to slightly differ from your view, however as my DD (who is accepted to the school) went to a private in Baltimore when I worked up there earlier in my career (this was K-2 for her). It just meant a drive for parties, etc. Just because she didn't live locally didn't mean she wasn't invited. It was a 35 minute drive to Baltimore to attend the parties, etc. just like how it would be now for schools in NW DC, however, many of the students at certain schools don't live close by. I was able to be a part of the school community, and she had tons of friends at school. Maybe it's just me, but it really didn't bother me that much.