Document everything. Keep all communications to email and related to important facts about the child.

Take a picture of the clothes he arrives in and what you send back.

What's best for the poor kid?

OP again. I think this is the wrong forum. I will move it to the "relationship-special concerns" forum.

My ex is being a pain the in a$$. We've gone to court already, & have agreed to a custody schedule. To be petty, my ex wants to change it, just because they SAY that they don't want to communicate w/me at all, & I don't return our DS's clothes. YES, like I said, PETTY, but this is what I am dealing with. And, before anyone asks, YES, I do return clothes.

My ex is proposing an unrealistic schedule, that would totally disrupt my work schedule, & there is no real reason for change, other than what I have already stated. So, I need a "take no prisoners" attorney that is going to shut this sh*t down now. I just want to be left alone & raise my son. It's funny, 90% of the communication is initiated by my ex, who doesn't want to communicate. Go figure.