I'm liking this shape-sort of between a ballet flat and driving shoe: http://www.toms.com/m/black-women-s-jutti-flats/s

Cowboy boots

Merrell mocs. So comfortable!

Loafers

Thank you for the recommendations! I'm going to try on a bunch of these.

When I'm not in Danskos, my other go-to mom shoes are Cole Haan loafers or Clarks.

Frye flats and loafers are the best.

Look at Dansko and Naot shoes (not clogs). They have some heft but are not clogs, and are super-comfortable.

If you are like me, flats in general (ballet flats, loafers, driving shoes) don't work.

Gucci driving moccasins

You could do a trendier clog, there are many brands available. Also "driving slippers" are very on-trend - they have some at Madewell that are pretty comfortable, more supportive than a ballet flat. For a more casual look, there are also a TON of new slip-on sneakers which are very on-trend - search for "slip-on" sneaker on Zappos or Shopbop and you will find a ton. Vans are also an option. I am probably much more of a fashionista than you, so YMMV.

I'd suggest Born mary janes for you to look at. Not a clog but those are clunky/ugly.

i like born and b.o.c. by born shoes. lots are slips ons; high quality leather and really conformtable. lots are clog-like (but MUCH more comfortable than dansko.) they do have kind of a clunky look. i think it depends on your jeans and clothing style as to whether they look "too" clunky.

I'm a SAHM looking for an everyday casual slip-on shoe to wear with jeans. I tried the dansko clogs but I didn't find them very comfortable. I'd definitely like something closer to a clog than a flat. Thanks for any suggestions!