Anonymous wrote:Our school only wants store bought stuff with the ingredients listed. There are also number of kids with gluten and peanuts allergy
I send in goody-bags with individually packet rice Krispy treats, goldfish packets, ring pop, fruit by the foot and a few small toys (pencils, erasers, tattoos) . I also slip in a thank you note. It is easy to distribute..
OP, I don't think that you should feel bad. In my culture kids birthdays are very important. Its a way to thank the universe for giving our kids to us, and for marking one more year that passed safely. Life is short, celebrate to the full extent the good fortune life gives you.
I like your expression of gratitude.
Children are indeed a gift, (not a 'right').