present_tense wrote:OP, at least you're honest and looking. If your husband can't convince you to lift weights, I certainly won't be able to on the Internet. In that case, PP's advice about the rower is spot on. Don't forget your nutrition too if losing weight is the goal...
Seriously, congrats on taking a big step. Many people don't make it as far as you have in actively seeking advice.
And this thread is an example why. OP asks for elliptical recommendations. And the first responses are "don't do that; this other type of workout is better." I think that attitude keeps a lot of people away from gyms or fitness. It's like the perfect becomes the enemy of the good.
Most regular people are better off finding a physical activity they at least enjoy a little bit and can incorporate into their life. Weights and rowing and all kinds of workouts are very effective. But if a person hates doing them, then it will be really difficult to keep up a regular routine.