Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:43     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
While your mother was sitting in a wheel chair with brain damage your brother confessed to you that he pushed down the stairs causing all the damage. You stated that you didn't understand what he was saying but you also state that he confessed. Why didn't you do any follow up on his confession? Or go to the authorities? Did you just want him to take care of her and make your life easier or something? Then you found out about the will? Why did your mother leave everything to him 20 yrs ago?

I would go to the funeral. It is your mother. Also, won't all your family be there? It might be nice to see everyone.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:39     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Do you know why you were disinherited?
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:37     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
I'm so sorry.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:36     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you didn't care until the will was read and you realized he got everything.

That is one way to look at it, but it is not true. Reading the will let me know what his motivation was.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:34     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
It sounds like you didn't care until the will was read and you realized he got everything.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 08:08     Subject: Re:Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Anonymous wrote:I'm so sorry. This happened with my uncle and my grandma. We did everything we could, but nothing happened to him.

It took me a long time to get over it.



OP here: I am so sorry. It is awful and very painful.

After the fact, I could see the clues, see the meanings that I overlooked because I refused to believe. He even confessed, but I did not understand what he was talking about at the time, or I thought he was just venting or really did not mean it or something. He is happy he put this burden on me -- that was part of the plan -- he wanted to relive his burden and check out if he would get caught. Yes, he is an evil person. But very smart and devious. Talking to him puts a stain on the soul.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 07:37     Subject: Re:Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
I'm so sorry. This happened with my uncle and my grandma. We did everything we could, but nothing happened to him.

It took me a long time to get over it.

Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 01:28     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
You don't go to the funeral for the dead. You go to support those who are mourning. If you have no interest in supporting your brother, don't go to the funeral. You can go to the cemetary to say goodbye to your mother some other day.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 01:08     Subject: Re:Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Your brother has built up some bad juju.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2014 00:55     Subject: Re:Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
As we found out in the OJ case, civil court has a lower threshold of evidence. Sue his ass.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2014 23:44     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
What a scum. I'm sorry. Is he younger?
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2014 23:40     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Can you challenge the will?
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2014 23:23     Subject: Re:Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Spent three years working on it and just lost on a technicality. He got away with it.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2014 23:19     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
Will it be easier to face if you ask the state to investigate and press charges?
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2014 23:14     Subject: Brother abuses elderly mother. Pushes her down the stairs in a moment of anger, crippling her
and causing brain damage. After years of suffering painfully in a wheelchair, she dies. He inherits her entire estate under terms of a will she wrote 20 years ago. do not know if I can face the funeral.