Anonymous wrote:When we applied to a private pre-K and it was suggested that DC (Aug. b-day) be red-shirted, I asked for a list of the birthdates in the incoming class. After red-shirting, she was right in the middle of the pack - in other words, half the class had been red-shirted. It was the right decision for her so we went through with it.
I redshirted my my Aug. kid in middle school. Do it now, as we should have done by at least the second grade but didn't because the school advised against it because of possible social issues. After years of second guessing ourselves we took the plunge in middle school, definitely the right decision, but wish we had followed our instincts earlier. Don't feel we rushing DC through anymore. Anyway, the benefits outweigh the negatives.